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Not Wired for 220
Jennifer and I would pull each others leg fairly often. Me more than her. She got my weird sense of humor and I loved her for that....

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Sep 4, 20233 min read
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College Game Day
Another part of College Football that Jennifer liked was watching the show "College Gameday"on ESPN. She would even sometimes get up...

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Sep 2, 20231 min read
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Party At The End Of The World
As I have discussed, Jennifer's and my musical tastes differed. However there was one artist that Jennifer and I both liked and we could...

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Sep 2, 20233 min read
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Comfort
Last night I turned on the TV in the kitchen and a program called "I Survived, Beyond and Back" was just starting. This program is about...

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Sep 1, 20231 min read
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Memories of Rain
This morning we are getting rain in Mesquite. Jennifer liked to lay in bed and listen to rain storms. She found the sound comforting. ...

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Sep 1, 20234 min read
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I Hope She Had A Good Laugh!
I have had a busy day today, which helped keep my mind off of grieving for a little bit. However, I must tell on myself about a couple...

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Aug 31, 20233 min read
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Will August Ever End?
Unfortunately our family got some more bad news this morning. I am not going to share what that new is because it is not my place to...

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Aug 30, 20232 min read
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Make the Dam Chili
One of the things that hurts the most about Jennifer's passing and is what I will call "unfair" is that we as a couple had worked hard to...

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Aug 29, 20233 min read
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Traditions
Jennifer started a couple of family traditions the last few years of her life. One was a ugly purse gift. Several years ago, our...

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Aug 28, 20233 min read
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Who You Calling Big Nose, Big Nose!
This morning instead of doing my writing therapy I figured I would start my weekly domesticated chores. While I was doing these chores...

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Aug 27, 20234 min read
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College Football Season Kick Off & Garbage Can
Jennifer was so looking forward to the start of the 2023 college football season. Jennifer never paid much attention to football until we...

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Aug 26, 20233 min read
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Shared Duties
Jennifer and I usually shared household chores, with a couple of exceptions. She did the bathroom cleaning and bed sheet changing. ...

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Aug 25, 20233 min read
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Never Not Remember You
I put off my 3:00 am therapy this morning. I woke up but just did not feel like writing today. Figured most of you probably needed a...

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Aug 24, 20231 min read
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Triggers
Time for what's appearing to be becoming my daily 3:00 am Therapy session. I have been experiencing triggers and from talking with others...

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Aug 23, 20232 min read
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Glory Days
Bruce Springsteen's "Born in the USA" album was a major album during our senior year of high school and our college days. I really liked...

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Aug 22, 20232 min read
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She's Home
I have Jennifer back with me and it makes me feel good to have her back in my possession. After she has had a few moments to get settled...

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Aug 21, 20231 min read
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Working on Photo's
Yesterday I woke up in a blue funk. The rainy overcast weather from Hurricane Hillary was probably a contributing factor. But I told...

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Aug 21, 20234 min read
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Missing Silly Little Things
She has only been gone eleven days and I am already missing one of the silly little things we would do almost daily. Our friend Lorie...

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Aug 19, 20232 min read
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One problem resolved!
Yesterday I mentioned that my water heater crapped out and was leaking. I am happy to report that the water heater was replaced as was...

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Aug 19, 20232 min read
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Walking In The Dark
Working thru this grief is not going to be easy. I know that, and I know that I am not going to be the first person to go through the...

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Aug 18, 20236 min read
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