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Hard To Believe
Today's meditation from the "Healing After Loss" book by Martha Hickman really hit home with me. Today's meditation started with a quote...

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Sep 21, 20232 min read
Gas Station Wine
Jennifer and I were never big foodies or big drinkers. One of the many things that I and my wallet loved about Jennifer was that she was...

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Sep 20, 20232 min read
Bowling, Bocce and Golf
When we retired, Jennifer and I took up bowling. We started this in San Antonio, and we would usually go on Wednesday afternoons. I...

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Sep 19, 20234 min read
Power Browser
In her day, Jennifer was a power shopper. At least she was once we finally got a pot to piss in and a little coin in our pockets. ...

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Sep 18, 20234 min read
I Am Doing OK
I have been getting asked how I am doing a lot. I appreciate people asking, because that means they care. I am doing OK. I by no means...

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Sep 17, 20232 min read
Empty Your Pockets
This morning I am doing laundry and it made me cry. The reason is that this is one of the shared duties that we both bowed our backs up...

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Sep 16, 20233 min read
Voracious Reader
Yesterday was my Rotary club's monthly used book sale. It was a good sale, and we sold a lot of Nora Roberts books yesterday. Of...

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Sep 15, 20233 min read
First Big Battle
Tonight I was driving home from a Rotary Club event and for some reason I got flooded with memories of Jennifer and I's first big fight...

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Sep 13, 20234 min read
Jennifer’s Brother Mike
On August 30 we recieved word that Jennifer's brother Mike had passed away. I had posted that I was upset by an event but would not...

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Sep 13, 20232 min read
Moves
The brain is a interesting organ. In the early morning I wake up and my brain is going 100 mph, I will have memories or thoughts and I...

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Sep 13, 20234 min read
For Better or For Worse
One thing that I know Jennifer is smiling about is that she FINALLY got out of having to carry my wallet in her purse. She thought...

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Sep 12, 20233 min read
9/11/2001
Jennifer was actually flying when the world stopped turning on 9/11/2001. We were living in Houston at the time. That morning Jennifer...

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Sep 11, 20232 min read
Dale Malody’s Words
For family and friends that were unable to join us in Mesquite for Jennifer's celebration of life. Below is the words of Dale Malody...

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Sep 10, 20235 min read


Beautiful Service
Jennifer's Service yesterday was beautiful. Thanks to a lot of different folks pitching in and helping with everything. So yet again I...

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Sep 10, 20232 min read
Thankful And Blessed
Yesterday friends and family started to arrive for today's celebration of life. Some I knew were coming and some were a total surprise. ...

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Sep 9, 20231 min read
Jimmy Eggs
I may have been a little tough on Jennifer in previous posts when I said I didn't marry her for her cooking skills. However, I told her...

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Sep 8, 20232 min read
Are We Going To End Up In Pony?
Today for some reason I have been flooded with memories of all different time periods in our journey together. Some of them I have no...

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Sep 7, 20232 min read


Address And Additional Details For Sept 9 Memorial Service
I know that some folks will be traveling to Mesquite for the September 9 Service so wanted to provide address and other details for the...

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Sep 6, 20232 min read
Bye Bye Birdie
I have mentioned that Jennifer could be tough as nails when she had to be, but she could also be a wussy at times. One thing that would...

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Sep 5, 20238 min read
Not Wired for 220
Jennifer and I would pull each others leg fairly often. Me more than her. She got my weird sense of humor and I loved her for that....

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Sep 4, 20233 min read
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